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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 14:43

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What I need from you?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why did McLaren hope that the Ferrari pair would pit twice during the Italian Grand Prix?

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

That's it for today.

Does not procrastinate.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Does the potential of making Star Wars R-rated movies depend on whether Star Wars have stories that is too dark for PG 13 in Disney?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can a white person wear a bonnet to bed?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).